Sunday, 1 July 2012

Some thoughts about the future

Tomorrow I begin house sitting.  No girlfriend, no best mate, no dog and no lodger.  Just me.  In a messy, two-up-two-down house.  I'll be getting my first ever taste of being a bachelor.


I'm not sure if I'm excited, but I know I'm nervous.


I think I'm excited, because when I was younger, all I wanted to do was be a bachelor.  


To come and go as I please, with no-one to blame but myself for not doing housework.  I get to stay up as late as I want.  In my pants if I want.  With (for the most part) only my thoughts to keep me company.


I'm nervous because that's exactly what I wanted.  Years ago.  I know that has changed now.


I like knowing that someone might be the vaguest bit interested in where I'm going or what I'm doing.  I like having housework to share with someone.  I like the thought of snuggling up with someone in bed, and having that pre-sleep conversation about nothing in particular.


I know that I am on the cusp of my life changing drastically.  This could well be my future.  The mess.  The late nights.  The pants.


The thoughts and the memories.


That's the part I dread.


The thoughts.



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